Wisdom comes to those who seek her; understanding is found by those who search.
The good news is that the opportunity to find wisdom is open to all. The requirement, though, is that we search for her, which is something that doesn’t take place by accident. It’s the result of a choice, and that choice is usually predicated on a realization of our own need.
Those who think they have no need to grow is wisdom will miss her; those who realize their need and act accordingly will find whom they seek.